Marriage counseling

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   Software updates don’t seem to get upgraded, updated and virus protected, and pop up blockers kept current, in the program called ‘being a human’. Sounds a little mechanical, but its a perfect metaphor for the state of affairs today. We all got some of what we didn’t want growing up, and didn’t get some of what […]

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John Gottman is often cited as our country’s foremost expert on relationships, in his book : the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work,  he lists five principles tips for a loving relationship: 1. Soften your start up 2. Learn to make and receive repair attempts 3. Soothe yourself and each other 4. Compromise 5. Be […]